Falling behind

You're six weeks behind. Do not start at week one

You're six weeks behind, you feel sick about it, and the plan forming in your head is to go back to lecture one and work through everything properly. Do not do this. It is the most natural response available and it will keep you behind permanently, because while you're catching up on week one, weeks seven and eight are happening.

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Start at the front, not the back

Go to this week's lecture. Understand this week's material. You will not follow all of it — that's acceptable and it is much better than the alternative, because the alternative is that you're still behind in April.

Then backfill only what this week actually requires. Not everything you missed. The prerequisite that's blocking you right now, and nothing else. Most of what you missed will turn out not to be blocking anything, and you can leave it.

Backfill by dependency, not by chronology

  • Find the specific thing you don't understand today, and trace it back to the missing prerequisite. That prerequisite is the only thing you need from the backlog right now.
  • Ignore anything that isn't blocking you. Some topics are dead ends that appear once and never recur. Chronological catch-up gives them equal weight with the load-bearing ones.
  • Use the syllabus to find out what actually connects to what — it's a dependency map and it's free.
  • Ask a specific question in [office hours](/blog/office-hours): 'What do I need from weeks 3–5 to follow this?' They will tell you in two minutes and save you two weeks.

Triage the assessments honestly

You cannot do everything. Work out where the marks are, and consciously accept doing something badly. That is a decision, and making it deliberately is enormously better than making it by default at 3am on the deadline.

And the part people skip

Tell someone. A tutor, a supervisor, the department. Extensions exist, mitigating circumstances exist, and they are much more available than students believe — but only if asked for *before* the deadline, not after. The shame that prevents you from asking is the same avoidance mechanism that got you behind, and it is now compounding.

Common questions

I'm way behind — should I start from the beginning?

No. Go to this week's lecture and backfill only what this week requires. Starting at week one means new material keeps arriving while you catch up, so you stay behind permanently.

How do I catch up on missed lectures?

By dependency, not chronology. Find what's blocking you today, trace it to the missing prerequisite, and learn only that. Most of what you missed isn't blocking anything.

Should I tell my tutor I'm behind?

Yes, and before the deadline rather than after. Extensions and mitigating circumstances are far more available than students believe, but only if you ask in time.

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